ESTP general:

You are the type of person who makes things happen. Your lively, engaging, and charismatic style is bound to raise the excitement level in anything you do. You are also an expert at observing people and making uncanny judgments about their personalities. If you are so inclined, you can use this information to get what you want from others. Others may call you manipulative, but in your own mind, you are simply skilled at operating in the game called Life.

ESTP when in love:

To you, love represents excitement and never-ending pleasure. You want a partner who can join you on a roller coaster of sensual delights as both of you enjoy the bounty that life has to offer. If you set your eyes on someone you really want, you don’t hesitate: You are capable of instantly turning on your irrepressible charm and joy-loving personality to capture his or her affections. As a lover, you are patient, practiced, and always eager to please. You pride yourself in making sure your partner pleads for more.